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by Dr. John Gottman
My data on newlywed couples indicate that more husbands are being transformed. About 35 percent of the men we’ve studied fall into the category of “emotionally intelligent husbands.” Research from previous decades suggests the number used to be much lower. Because this type of husband honors and respects his wife, he will be open to learning more about emotions from her.
I believe the emotionally intelligent husband is the next step in social evolution. This doesn’t mean that he is superior to other men in personality, upbringing, or moral fiber. He has simply figured out something very important about marriage that the others haven’t yet. And this is how to honor his wife and convey his respect to her. It is really that elementary.